Got Quoted?

Thinks thousand times before taking a decisions. But, after taking decisions never turn back even if you get thousand difficulties.

-  Hitler -

Sorry, Mom!

Hello there,

I'm feeling so terible right now. Here, feeling so lonely. 
There are so many people around me right now, but no one I can talk to.

I wanna scream, I wanna cry. 
But, I don't wanna do that. 
Because, I don't wanna be ungrateful people.

I was upset with my Mom today. I love her so much, but she wasn't realize that.
I don't wanna be ungrateful child to my Mom.
I knew that she was struggled to raised me and my brother.
I never meant to screamed at her, angry with her, or even hate her.
I just don't wanna her become so selfish.
I grown up, and I have my own life now.
I just wanna live my life like I want it to be.

Sorry Mom, you know how much I love you.
And, you're the only reason why I still struggling in this live.
You're the only reason why I work so hard.
To give you anything you want, to give you a better life.

And someday, you will say, " That's my daughter! She brings me happiness, wealthy, and she meant the world for me!"

I miss the old you...

* Love your Mom when you got a chance to love her. *

Feelings

Jealousy is (not) allowed. Because you are not even belong to me from the very beginning.
#madung

Gratitude

Too many problems to be handled by one head. But thanks to Allah. Because Allah had given me a heart bigger than my head :)

MADUNG

Kucoba untuk berhenti sejenak untuk melupakanmu
Kucoba untuk menjauhkan diri untuk tidak bersamamu
Namun ternyata aku tidak cukup kuat
Namun ternyata aku tidak cukup berani

Salahku yang telah menginginkan sesuatu yang tak dapat ku miliki
Salahku yang telah menerima dengan salah semua yang kau berikan

Tapi semua pesonamu tak dapat aku pungkiri
Semua yang ada padamu begitu membuatku tak ingin jauh darimu
Kau sosok yang telah membuatku tidak takut untuk jatuh hati
Kau telah buatku berani untuk mencintai tanpa mengharapkan sesuatu
Karena dari awal aku sudah tahu bahwa kau dan aku tidak akan bisa bersama

Terima kasih karena telah hadir membawa kedamaian
Terima kasih karena telah buatku merasa berharga
Terima kasih karena kau selalu ada di saat aku membutuhkanmu

Aku menyayangimu sebanyak aku bisa menyayangimu :)

Life is about to change

Dear readers,

Hello everyone! How are you guys all? I hope everything doing just fine and may all happy always.

It's been a long time since the last post. Well, I was kinda busy nowadays. My life was CHANGE. And I dunno why, but I'm so happy NOW!!

It begins when my friends from 5th grade, Fika, called me and asked me to meet up. And I say yes. She was introduced me with Bang Reza and Ka Dyta. They were my friend's, Zuhra, brother and sister in law. Actually, when I arranged the meeting with Fika, she didn't tell me that she brought Bang Reza and Ka Dyta with her.
We met at McDonald's Pondok Indah. And to make it short, they asked me to join their bussiness. Because they knew that I didn't satisfied with my job that time. They work in PRUDENTIAL! Yaya, that's an insurance company. So what?! I dont know how, at the end I end up joined with them. I felt like I got better after talked with them. I felt so full of energy when I talked with them.
I joined the Seminar in Puncak called BOSS, Blueprint Of Success Seminar. The BOSS held in Yasmin Hotel, Cipanas Puncak. I was there for three days. And it was so amazing became a part of it. Three days full of great seminar from awesome speakers. I felt like REBORN. I felt like I got full of positif energy and passion when I was there. And I know I deserve to be SUCCESS and makes my DREAMS comes TRUE! And after that, my life was change. I didn't scare to DREAM BIG and try to make it HAPPEN. And that was so true. The speakers made my mind opened. I wanna got promoted at the end of the year 2012. I wanna be Unit Manager and get the Star Club 2013 to Barcelona. And I know that I CAN! YES, I CAN!!!
And I decided to resign from my job that time. Because I wanna focus in Prudential and get promoted at the end of the year. I dont know yet, is it the right decision or not. But, I will never know the result if I didn't try it, right? I KNOW and BELIEVE that PRUDENTIAL is my ride to SUCCESS!

And I wanna say thanks to my great team who always support me in every way. Thanks to Bang Reza & Ka Dyta, Bang Afrizal & Zuhra, Fika & Trikur, Pepy, and all teams. Let's get to BARCELONA in 2013!! Let's get to BORACAY!!


Well, that's my story from now. And I hope the next post, will be posted all the photos when I got promoted to Unit Manager and my vacation to Boracay and Barcelona! Go double B!!!



Love,


Vianda :)

Refleksi Diri

Hai,

 

Hari ini saya mendapatkan BBM dari seorang teman yang mungkin bisa bermanfaat bagi teman-teman semua. Khususnya sesama muslim :)

 

JIKA AKU..
DIMAKAMKAN HARI INI
(Suatu Renungan)

Aku mati,
Perlahan,
tubuhku ditutup tanah.
Perlahan....
semua pergi meninggalkanku.
Masih terdengar jelas langkah2 terakhir mereka,

Aku sendirian,
di tempat gelap yg tak pernah terbayang,
Sendiri,
menunggu pertanyaan malaikat.

Belahan hati,
belahan jiwa pun pergi.
Apa lagi sekedar kawan dekat atau orang lain.
Aku bukan siapa2 lagi bagi mereka.
Sanak keluarga menangis,
sangat pedih,
aku pun demikian,
tak kalah sedih.

Tetapi aku tetap sendiri, disini,
menunggu perhitungan.
Menyesal sudah tak mungkin.
Tobat tak lagi dianggap & maaf pun tak bakal didengar,
Aku benar2 harus sendiri..

Ya ALLAH jika Engkau beri aku 1 lagi kesempatan,
jika Engkau pinjamkan lagi beberapa hari milikMU,
Utk aku perbaiki diriku,
Aku ingin memohon maaf pada mereka,
yg selama ini telah merasakan zalimku,
yg selama ini sengsara karena aku,
tersakiti karena aku,
Aku akan kembalikan jika ada harta kotor ini yg telah kukumpulkan,
yg bahkan kumakan..

Yaa ALLAH Beri lagi aku beberapa hari milik-Mu,
Untuk berbakti kepada ayah & ibu tercinta.
Teringat kata2 kasar & keras yg menyakitkn hati mereka,
Maafkan aku ayah & ibu, mengapa tak kusadari betapa besar kasih sayangmu,....

Beri juga ya ALLAH aku waktu untuk berkumpul dgn keluargaku,
menyenangkan saudara2ku.....
Untuk sungguh2 beramal soleh.
Aku sungguh ingin bersujud dihadap-Mu lebih lama lagi.....
Begitu menyesal diri ini.....
Kesenangan yg pernah kuraih dulu,
tak ada artinya sama sekali
Mengapa kusia ² kan saja waktu hidup yg hanya sekali itu?
Andai aku bisa putar ulang waktu itu.

Tp aku dimakamkan hari ini & semua menjadi tak termaafkan & semua menjadi terlambat & aku harus sendiri.....
Untuk waktu yg tak terbayangkan sampai yaumul hisab & dikumpulkan dipadang masyar...

Ya RABB sampaikan salamku utk sahabatku yg sllu mengingatkan ku akan hari terakhirku didunia

Sesungguhnya sahabat yg terbaik yaitu sahabat yg mengingatkan ttg kematian !!! Wass wr wb

 

 

Semoga dengan post ini bisa memberikan renungan untuk diri kita masing-masing.

 

:)

Got Quoted?

In the end, SUCCSESS is only for hard worker  who struggle nicely in this life. 

- Alvianda Dwi. A-

M.I.S.S.I.N.G

Hello Reader,


Today is my Grandma's Birthday!. I'm so happy for her. It's her 82nd Birthday, if she still alive. But unfortunately, she was dead in April, 4th 2000. I miss her to dead. She was my everything!


Me and my grandma likes to watch Telenovela. We spent lots of time together. Now, I miss her so much. I hope you happy there, MIA! I always pray for you. I hope we will meet there in heaven, insya Allah. Aamiin :)

Ya Rabb, please take care of my MIA :)

KARMA

Dear Reader,


Have you heard about KARMA before? Well, maybe sure you did.
Karma is something that will happen to us. What we do, will get back to us, event it's a good thing or the bad things.


From A concept of karma (along with samsara and moksha) may originate in the shramana tradition of which Buddhism and Jainism are continuations. This tradition influenced the Brahmanic religion in the early Vedantic (Upanishadic) movement of the 1st millennium BC. This worldview was adopted from this religious culture by Brahmin orthodoxy, and Brahmins wrote the earliest recorded scriptures containing these ideas in the early Upanishads. Until recently, the scholarly consensus was that reincarnation is absent from the earliest strata of Brahminical literature. However, a new translation of two stanzas of the Rig Veda indicate that the Brahmins may have had the idea, common among small-scale societies around the world, that an individual cycles back and forth between the earth and a heavenly realm of ancestors. In this worldview, moral behavior has no influence on rebirth. The idea that the moral quality of one's actions influences one's rebirth is absent from India until the period of the shramana religions, and the Brahmins appear to have adopted this idea from other religious groups. (Wikipedia)

I've had an experience about KARMA before. There was someone done the bad thing to me, and someone told me not to respond to that thing, because somehow that person will get KARMA of what he done. People say that the environment will pay him back according what he done. But for me, I know it's God who will pay him back. Not to punish him but to give him a lesson about life. 


So, for me, if someone done the bad things to me, i will just smile and see what happen next. Because I believe in Allah, Allah never let us dissapoint.


KARMA DOES EXIST!


You play drama, you get karma.

Good Bye Picnik

Hello everyone,



Huaaa *crying* i'm so sad. You know why? (of course you don't). Well, it's because one of my fave sites Picnik for editing photos were CLOSED. I don't know exactly why :(. You can try to open the site here. Here are some of the pictures i've been edited in this site.

And, here is the advertisement:

The Picnik is over

As announced earlier, Picnik closed on April 19, 2012. We’ve packed up and moved some of our most popular tools and effects to Google+. Hope you visit us there.

We wish to express how fortunate and proud we are to have worked on Picnik. To help you along with future editing needs visit Creative Kit in Google+, or if you prefer a standalone editor may we suggestPicMonkey.com.

Some of you may be asking:

Why?

Since joining Google in 2010, the Picnik team has been working on Picnik while helping to create photo editing magic in Google’s products. But now we get to focus.

What about my photos saved on other sites?

Your photos stored or saved on other sites will remain intact and are not affected by our closure.

What now?

To keep your photo editing mojo rolling, visit Creative Kit in Google+ orPicMonkey.com.

What if I have more questions?

Please visit http://support.google.com/picnik

Well, hope I could fine another photo editting website as good as www.picnik.com.

GOOD BYE PICNIK!

Got Quoted?

menunggu itu memang menyakitkan

namun, jikalau yang ditunggu itu pantas untuk ditunggu

semua akan berasa indah dan menyenangkan

menunggu itu bukan berarti tidak mau berusaha

namun, menunggu berarti bahwa kita bisa 

menjaga hati untuk orang yang benar-benar kita cintai

-Alvianda Dwi A.-

Got Quoted?

It's good to have ambition. But too ambitious and okay-ing every way to success can kill you and your feelings to others

Dua Sisi Jakarta

Monumen Nasional

Jakarta, kota metropolitan nan megah
Penuh dengan gedung-gedung pencakar langit
Penuh dengan harapan yang melambung tunggi
Penuh dengan gemerlapan sebuah ibu kota


Jakarta, kota kemiskinan nan bobrok
Penuh dengan bangunan-bangunan kumuh
Penuh dengan harapan yang terpelanting jatuh ke jurang
Penuh dengan kemiskinan sebuah daerah terpencil


Jakarta, terlihat indah dari luar
Namun terlihat busuk dari dalam


Jakarta, menjadi tempat tujuan untuk sukses orang desa
Jakarta, menjadi tempat hancurnya harapan orang desa

Gedung Pencakar Langit

Peruntungan diuji di Jakarta
Banyak yang beruntung, namun lebih banyak lagi yang tidak


Kesabaran diuji di Jakarta
Banyak yang sabar, namun lebih banyak lagi yang tidak


Jakarta, bagai rimba di tengah kota
Siapa yang kuat, dia yang menang
Siapa yang lemah, dia yang tersingkir
Di Jakarta hukum rimbalah yang berlaku


Namun, setiap hal selalu punya dua sisi
Bisa baik, namun bisa juga buruk
Tergantung bagaimana kita menilai dan bersikap akan hal itu


Itulah Jakarta
Tanah kelahiranku tercinta
Dengan segala kekurangan dan kelebihannya

- Alvianda Dwi A, -

Got Quoted?

Mengalah bukan berarti kalah. 

Mengalah berarti kita mempunyai keberanian yang besar untuk tidak mendahulukan ego kita untuk kepentingan bersama.

- Alvianda Dwi A. - 

The Day - 110312

Hello again,


I want to share the momment in my life. Yesterday, my cousin Kenya, celebrated her second wedding. I'm so happy for her. Just let the picture tell the story...


First i'll give you the picture of Showering Ceremony or known as " Upacara Siraman". 

Boiled Roots

Sungkeman / Ask for permision to the parents and elders.

The bride being bathed

The picture on the left side, is the main activity in Showering Ceremony. The bride was bathed by the family member such as the parents, brothers/sisters, grandpas/grandmas, uncles/aunties, and the bride's cousins. This ceremony is came from Javanese. This ceremony means, the bride is being purified before her marriage. She was bathed with the holy water from 7 places and with 7 different flowers. Indonesia 

has so many cool ceremony. And this is one of them.

And here are some pictures from the wedding ceremony which held in Puri Cinere Mosque. Enjoy!

The Pre-Wed Photo

Narcist Bride

Ijab Qobul - The Moment

Officially Married

And finally they officialy married after the Groom, Luddy Triagus ' Blake ' Prasetyo, said Qobul. Alhamdulillah, hope they both will be a sakinah, mawadah, warohmah family. Hope they love will live forever and they happy ever after.

Here I give other photos of happines in the wedding ceremony.

Me and The Bride

The Bride with Grandmas

Me and The Boys

Me and My Cousins-In-Law (Mba Indah)

Me and Naren (cousin)

Me and Pedra (cousin)

The Twins - Me and My Mom

Me and Two Lil' Princesses

My Fave Boy - Reiko

And last but not least, is the photos of me :)

Me :)

Another Me :))

So, that's it. I just want to share the happiness to all of YOU! And I hope, I will getting married soon. Amin insya Allah. 


Congratulations once again to Kenya 'nyonyo' Parahita and Luddy 'blake' Triagus P! Hope both of you will happily ever. Amin.

Got Quoted?

Kebahagiaan dan kesedihan itu kamu sendiri yang berhak menentukan, bukan orang lain.

Meskipun banyak orang yang berusaha untuk menjatuhkan atau menyakitimu, selama kamu tidak mengijinkan mereka melakukan itu kepadamu, maka kamu akan baik-baik saja.

- Alvianda Dwi A -

Kesel

Satu kata yang menggambarkan perasaan gw sekarang.

KESEL

Mau tau kenapa? Karena gw paling ga suka sama orang yang sombong, angkuh, dan merasa dirinyalah yang paling benar.
Hellow, nobody's perfect! And you neither.
Kesombongan itu hanya milik Allah, kita sebagai manusia yang sering berbuat salah dan khilaf tidak pantas untuk berlaku sombong dan angkuh walau hanya sepersekian-detik. Toh, semua yang kita punya itu cuma titipan. SEMUA! Harta, kekuasaan, anak, warisan, rumah, mobil, motor, uang. Tidak ada yang kita punya di dunia ini yang benar2 milik kita. Bahkan dari harta yang kita dapat dari hasil kerja keras kita sendiri pun ada hak orang lain di dalamnya. Hak-hak fakir miskin.
Gw ga memungkiri gw pun pernah berlaku sombong dan angkuh. Namun, gw belajar dari itu semua. Karena gw sadar bahwa semua itu hanyalah semu.
Dan satu lagi tipe orang yang ga gw suka adalah orang yang MUNAFIK!
Gw benci abis neh sama orang kaya gini. Biasanya orang kaya gini mulutnya jahat banget!
Menghina dan merendahkan orang dibelakangnya, namun bisa berlaku semanis madu di depan orang tersebut. Orang kaya gini cocoknya jadi Aktor/Aktris. Pasti sering dapat penghargaan akting terbaik.

Yah tapi yasudahlah yah. Ga ada gunanya juga gw marah, toh seperti yang gw bilang di awal Nobody's Perfect.

Got Quoted?

Saat kau mempunyai masalah yang pelik jangan berkata,
" Ya Allah, masalahku sangat besar. "
Tapi berkatalah kau,
" Hei Masalah, Allah-ku Mahabesar! "


- Unknown - 

Kasih Itu...

Kasih itu tidak buta

Kadang ia memilih untuk tidak melihat

Agar sang kekasih bahagia

Kasih itu tidak menyakitkan

Kadang kita melihat dari sudut pandang yang salah

Sehingga begitu perih kita rasa

Kasih itu tidak mengekang

Kadang ia terlalu besar mencinta

Sehingga membuat sang kekasih sesak tak bisa bergerak

Kasih itu tidak egois

Kadang kita lupa bahwa bukan hanya ingin kita saja yang harus dipenuhi

Tapi diperlukan toleransi untuk bertahan

- Alvianda Dwi A. -

Penantian Cinta

Kekasih tercinta yang telah diciptakan-Nya

Masih mencari jalan untuk bersamaku

Ia masih disana menunggu waktu yang tepat

Untuk meminangku dan memintaku selalu bersamanya

Aku tahu, disana, Ia merindukan sosokku

Menerka-nerka semua tentangku

Menerawang masa depan kami bersama

Menikmati hari saat kami telah bersatu

Dalam sebuah keyakinan cinta dari Tuhan

Sama sepertiku disini, yang setia menanti

Lelaki terbaik yang pantas mendampingiku

Menjadi imamku dan menuntunku meraih cinta Illahi

Mengukuhkan cinta kami atas nama Allah

Dan aku yakin seseorang itu telah tercipta

Dari kasih dan cinta Allah pada hamba-Nya

Yang pada waktunya, Ia akan menyatukan kami

Dan membuatnya bertahan sampai Allah memutuskan

Untuk memisahkan kami dalam sebuah kematian

Dan sampai saat kami dipertemukan

Aku berjanji akan menjaga diri ini tetap suci

Dalam penantian cinta terbaikku

- Alvianda Dwi A. -

I'm Back

Hello,

I'm back! Yeah at least, I hope I could keep continue to write this blog.
It's been a long looonggg loonngggg * too much * time since the last time i wrote a post. And I really missed to write again.
Before I continue I would love to tell you one thing, IT'S 2012!!!! Haha, I have not wrote for a year :)

Hmm, I really don't know what to write.
So, see you all!

xoxo,
Vianda